…And today nothing has change aside from more and more countries are buying into this tragic and misguided child welfare practice, and our own Department of State stands by without refuting their efforts or championing the rights of orphaned children to permanent families. 

In the early 90’s the First Lady of Georgia, Nanuli Shevardnadze, shocked the world with her claim that “It is better for a Georgian child to die in Georgia, than to leave Georgia and grow up in another country through Adoption!” 

If you believe children can keep their cultural identity-pride and be raised in a safe and loving family elsewhere, that our Department of State should do everything possible to keep Adoptions affordable and accessible to all American Families, that our Department of State should be promoting intercountry Adoption as a viable option OVER permanent foster care,and want to learn more about what’s happening to end your right to adopt a child through intercountry Adoption, visit:

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UNICEF Fostering Success Comes With A Price: Pemanency Denied to Unparented Children


Deinstitucionalizacija-01_-_380 Having seen great foster care provided to children in Serbia, I can personally attest to how great this is for kids… EXCEPT…. UNICEF holds solidly to the goal for every unparented child is to have a “family environment” rather than making permanency planning the end goal for every child – a forever family – not just a family “environment”. 

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When UNICEF ‘Kool-Aid’ is Served at Your Next Dinner Party

We Love Katie Jay!


stork-baby-girl-thumb-200x149 Assisted reproductive technology is a multi-billion dollar industry. But no one ever questions the value or proposes that doctors start doing IVF for free. Sometimes people complain that insurance companies should cover the costs, but no one argues that the reproductive technology industry should not be allowed to profit off their work.

Why? Let’s imagine that starting tomorrow, doctors and everyone involved in the reproductive technology industry were no longer allowed to profit from their work. Not a single dime could be made. What would happen?

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The Real Reason Some Charities Abandon Orphans



An activist who opposes international adoption just wrote a post that is breathtaking in its honesty. She openly confesses her anger toward international adoption because it hinders her organization’s attempts at fundraising.

It is a striking admission because child welfare advocates have long argued that the real reason NGOs like UNICEF and Save The Children oppose international adoption is because of their focus on fundraising. But NGOs never admit that because fighting adoptions means condemning children to early death (or a life in the sex or drug trades at best) and that’s bad for their reputation as child savers, clearly. They usually fight adoption by grossly exaggerating concerns about adoption ethics, so it is refreshing to see anyone admit the real, underlying self-interest so openly.

So the NGOs actively work to keep all the kids in orphanages because they think the money families spend on adoption fees should go to the NGOs instead.

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75,000 Orphans and Counting…


By Kelly Ensslin


Kelly Ensslin has an insightful new blog post on the Both Ends Burning website about the newly released State Department adoption numbers, showing a drop for the ninth consecutive year in a row. The numbers over the past decade represent at least 75,000 orphans who have been deprived of permanent, loving families due to failed U.S. policy.

“Last Friday, the Department of State released its long-awaited annual international adoption statistics. As we had predicted, for the ninth straight year the number of children internationally adopted into permanent loving US families has fallen. In fiscal year 2013, only 7,094 children entered the United States on orphan visas. This number represents an 18% drop from the prior year and a 69% reduction since 2004, when international adoptions peaked at 22,884.

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International Adoption’s Drastic Decline: Why US Government Policy is Significantly To Blame


By Diane Kunz


U.S. government policy is significantly to blame for the drastic decline in international adoption.  The US  government views international adoption as something to protect children from rather than a form of protection for children.  Let me explain.

Over the last five years the USG has taken a consistently negative approach on international adoption. The Department of State has adopted UNICEF’s policy which is that international adoption is to be shunned.  It is DOS and UNICEF which advance the proposition that countries should reject international adoption as a method of family formation.   When speaking at international forums such as the  Fifth International Policy Conference on the African Child:  Intercountry Adoption:  Alternatives and Controversies (May 29-30, 2012;, DOS and UNICEF speak with one voice,  defining  international adoption as cultural genocide,  a sign of national failure or as a cover for fraud.   As the USG has funneled billions of dollars of aid through UNICEF in the last five years, it is no surprise that developing countries are following this prescription.

The USG has not usefully aided countries which wish to join the Hague Convention on Intercountry Adoption.  DOS, our Central Authority, has not given the level of technical advice and training that could bring good programs into existence.    Instead we criticize other countries’ efforts and find them unacceptable (The record of our interactions with Vietnam is relevant here.)  We have not accorded appropriate respect to countries which have joined the Hague.  Being a member of the Hague Convention should give foreign Central Authority decisions an analogous  level of status as under the Uniform Child Custody Jurisdiction and Enforcement Act.   DOS has taken the opposite approach, telling the Chinese what their laws mean, questioning the Ethiopians on their legal practices etc.  Contrast the approach taken by DOS in Hague Abduction cases.

DOS has not used timely and appropriate diplomacy with other international adoption partners.  Chinese officials have repeated told stakeholders that DOS is the worst central authority with which they have programs.  We could probably not have prevented the Russian ban on international adoption to the United States but had DOS taken a more active role during the negotiations over the U.S.-Russian Bilateral Adoption Agreement, that treaty would have been effective, with regulations promulgated when the Russian ban was enacted.  This would have most likely meant that Russian children (including biological siblings of children previously adopted here) who were already near the completion of their adoptions, would have come home to their American families.

DOS often uses fear of fraud as an explanation for its actions.  Yet when USCIS examined over 2000 Ethiopian cases, its officials could find no case that should not have been approved.  The Center for Adoption Policy has repeatedly asked DOS to require specific anti-fraud measures, with no results.  It is almost as if DOS wants fraud to exist as an excuse to end all international adoption.  Of course there are bad adoptions which call for specific bad actions to be ended and specific bad actors to be excluded from international adoption work.  But instead of this proper focus, DOS is weaponizing these wrongful practices and targeting all international adoptions. Is there trafficking through adoption?  There are a tiny number of documented cases and they are heinous.  But the number is miniscule when compared to child trafficking done through illicit immigration schemes, and child snatching.

DOS has repeatedly been dilatory and lax in its efforts as the Central Authority.  There have been numerous times over the last five years when I have contacted DOS with news of changes in various countries’ programs.   I glean my information from online research.  Surely DOS could have better information if it so chose.  This lack of information causes true pain and suffering to potential adoptive parents.  Just as bad are the continued flawed processing and the consistent burying of adoption cases under reams of paper.  No wonder we have seen the pool of potential adoptive parents shrink because families, understandably, shy away from international adoption when they learn of these unnecessary pitfalls.

There is another way.  The USG could take the opposite path and embrace international adoption as one legitimate method of family creation for unparented children.  This is the goal a number of supporters are attempting to reach through the Children in Families First Act (CHIFF; S. 1530, H.R. 4143).  As CHIFF directs:  “All options for providing appropriate, protective, and permanent family care to children living without families must be considered concurrently and permanent solutions must be put in place as quickly as possible. Solutions include family preservation and reunification, kinship care, guardianship, domestic and Intercountry adoption, and other culturally acceptable forms of care that will result in appropriate, protective, and permanent family care. Preference should be given to options that optimize child best interests, which generally means options which provide children with fully protected legal status and parents with full legal status as parents, including full parental rights and responsibilities.”

In practice this policy would direct DOS, USCIS and USAID to use both money and soft power influence to promote policy which puts the goal of children having families first, including the use of international adoption as a legitimate option for unparented children, as well as advocating for other available solutions.  Our government would allocate our foreign aid to help countries create child-centered solutions which would have general similarities but also take account of  national differences.  We would provide monetary and technical assistance to countries that were joining the Hague Convention  and we would measure progress to make sure that best practices  were put into place in a timely fashion.  With our Hague partners we would take the position that once you have joined the Hague club, we respect and accept your domestic procedures.  The USG position would aim to get to yes, rather than find ever more creative ways of saying no.

We would assure countries that in our multicultural nation, a child who comes here will be brought up with the greatest respect for her culture and will grow up as a citizen of the world.  Nationalism has not increased in the last twenty years; one of the courses I taught at Yale (in my previous career as a diplomatic historian) traced the trajectory of nationalism, and I can vouch for that assertion.  If you look at the number of immigrants who wish to come here and the lengths that they go to do so, one understands that nothing ideological stands in the way of the hope for a better life, for oneself, and for one’s children.

Currently, despite falling birth rates, millions of orphans and vulnerable children are at risk around the world.  The USG can and should work with governments and international bodies to create permanent solutions for these children without families.  Take China, for example.  In Guangzhou the local government this year set up a child safe haven box where parents could leave children they could not care for.  In ninety days 260 children were left there, completely overwhelming officials who closed down the facility because they had no room in the city’s orphanages.    On an annual rate, the number of children abandoned in that one safe haven in that one three month period is 45 percent of the entire number of adoptions from China to the United States in FY 2013.  Under our new approach, the USG would, together with Chinese officials, ameliorate difficulties so that these children could find permanent, loving homes.

In FY 2008, our first year as a Hague nation, there were 17, 456 adoptions into the US.  Last year there were 7,094.  Tens of thousands of children have been abandoned to the direst of fates.  We must do better.

Dr. Diane B. Kunz, Esq. is Executive Director of the Center for Adoption Policy, a 501 (c) 3 corporation that has become a pre-eminent legal and policy institute engaged in adoption issues. The Center for Adoption Policy was honored in 2008 by the Congressional Coalition on Adoption Institute as an Angel in Adoption. Dr. Kunz has consulted with government agencies such as the Department of State, the Centers for Disease Control and USCIS and has been actively involved in helping deal with issues pertaining to the Haitian children who came to the United States under the humanitarian parole program. From 1976 to 1983 Dr. Kunz practiced corporate law with the firms of White & Case and Simpson Thacher & Bartlett (Cornell University, J.D. 1976). She left the practice of law and studied diplomatic and economic history at Oxford University (M. Litt. 1986) and Yale University (Ph.D, 1989). From 1988 until 1998 she was Assistant, then Associate Professor of History at Yale University. While at Yale she wrote extensively on twentieth century history, including the prize winning book, The Economic Diplomacy of the Suez Crisis and Butter and Guns: The Economic Diplomacy of the Cold War. From 1998-2001 she taught history and international relations at Columbia University. In 2001 she and Ann Reese founded the Center for Adoption Policy. Dr. Kunz is a member of the New York bar. She is an honorary fellow of the American Academy of Adoption Attorneys and the American Academy of Assisted Reproductive Technology Attorneys. She is also the mother of eight children, four of whom were born in China through the non-special needs and waiting children programs.

The Foster Care Model: Compliments of UNICEF

NGOs gloss over the high level of abuse in kinship care, as well as the instability and vulnerability that is inherent in any temporary care.




UNICEF’s Unethical War Against International Adoption


Unicef%20no%2006-27-2013 There are few things more harmful than a trusted organization associated with good will and good deeds that uses its influence irresponsibly, and there are few organizations with more accumulated trust than UNICEF, the United Nations organization dedicated to children’s rights, safety and welfare. That UNICEF could be promoting policies that actually harms children seems too awful to contemplate, but that appears to be what is occurring. The problem is that most people have grown up thinking of the organization as the epitome of international virtue. UNICEF doing something that hurts kids? Impossible. Since the group’s impressive moral authority seems to be focused in an unethical direction, the damage it can do before public opinion turns is substantial.

Hearing on a Review of US Foreign Assistance for Children in Adversity

May 21, 2013: View the "Hearing on a Review of US Foreign Assistance for Children in Adversity" chaired by Senator Landrieu (D).  This hearing is in regards to a new National Action Plan for Children in Adversity which is setting the stage for children in foreign countries to have strong beginnings, families first through all possible options, and protection from violence, abuse and exploitation. 

Forward to the 1:03:03 mark of the video to hear the Dr. Susan Bissell, Chief of Child Protection, Program Division for UNICEF respond to Senator Landrieu’s pointed and thought provoking questions. Senator Landrieu asks questions about UNICEF’s budget allocation toward permanency efforts for unparented children, methodology and inability to account for the true number orphans living outside of parental care, narrowly defined as a single orphan (one parent living) or a double orphan (both parents living). 

Thank you to Chuck Johnson, President and CEO of the National Council For Adoption (NCFA), for sharing the link and keeping us informed. 

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